dedicated server connection issues

[Pahtriac]

server:supermicro 90 Gig ram  dual xeon 5060  Ubuntu focused fossa  behind a PFsense router
the server is running and i can see it on the LAN side.
all ports are propperly configured as stated on the wiki
i just cant get the thing visable on the server list and WAN side
AFAIK the server runs proppery:
 

Enabled Traces: 
Avorion server 2.0.5 72df446f209d running on Ubuntu 20.04.3 LTS starting up in "/home/XXXXXX/avorion/galaxies/defaultgalaxy"
Version Hash: 1506377472304423534
CPU: Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU           E5620  @ 2.40GHz 16 Cores
RAM: 90GB

Server version, as listed publicly: 2.0.5.33661
CAppInfoCacheReadFromDiskThread took 4 milliseconds to initialize
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamGameServer012 / GameServer
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamUtils008 / Utils
Setting breakpad minidump AppID = 445220
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamGameServer012 / GameServer
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamUtils008 / Utils
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamNetworking005 / Networking
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): SteamGameServerStats001 / GameServerStats
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): STEAMHTTP_INTERFACE_VERSION002 / HTTP
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): STEAMINVENTORY_INTERFACE_V001 / Inventory
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): STEAMUGC_INTERFACE_VERSION008 / UGC
RecordSteamInterfaceCreation (PID 15102): STEAMAPPS_INTERFACE_VERSION008 / Apps
CApplicationManagerPopulateThread took 133 milliseconds to initialize (will have waited on CAppInfoCacheReadFromDiskThread)
Server connected to Steam successfully
Server is VAC Secure!
Game Server Steam ID: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Game Port: 27000
Steam Port: 27021
Steam Query Port: 27020
Query Port: 27003

Steam Networking initialized.
Warning: No RCON password set. RCON disabled.
Found 0 mods in "/home/XXXXXX/avorion/galaxies/defaultgalaxy/modconfig.lua".
name: Community Server
seed: TFpPHgEME9
port: 27000
password: yes
max online players: 10
save interval: 600
broadcast interval: 5
max loaded sector time: 300
weak update: yes
worker threads: 32
generator threads: 8
script background threads: 3
difficulty: Normal
scenario: Normal
tutorial: no
collision: 1
access list: Blacklist
multiplayer: yes
vac secure: yes
listed: yes
steam networking: yes
send crash reports: yes
Backup creation enabled. Path: "/home/XXXXXX/.avorion/backups"
Please ensure that the server has write-access to that path.
administrators: 'XXXXXX' 'XXXXXXX' 
Commands file: /home/XXXXXX/avorion/galaxies/defaultgalaxy/commands.txt
Initializing sector database...
Initializing faction database...
Starting up 32 worker threads...
Starting up 3 script background threads...
Loading groups...
Loading script data...
Galaxy initialized.
Server startup complete.
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The PFsense logs show: 

Sep 3 18:45:29

LAN

Default deny rule IPv6 (1000000105)

[fe80::230:48ff:fef5:af01]:60481

[2a01:bc80:5:112::4]:27019

UDP

just after i started it, i tried to greenlight these blocks  but new ones appear after a restart  and i greenlighted the 27019 aswell.

i dont know how to continue    the PFSense guy's looked into it and say its not the router  its propperly configured

 

Edited September 3, 2021 by Pahtriac