I seem to be having similar issues. I'm playing in single player and the sectors do not appear to be unloaded (when I first started the game up, I would get errors if I sent commands to ships in unloaded sectors, but after some time OOS ship orders don't raise those errors). However, mining and salvaging soon stop for OOS ships with the recent updates. When I switch to those ships, though, I don't find them active near asteroids or whatever.