Before I say anything I'd like to thank you Koonchi for putting all your blood sweat and tears into Avorion. I understand having to divert your attention to the forums to talk about these subjects is taxing on you. But please try to understand us, we're like dedicated fans being ignored, and we don't like it.
Everyone will agree that this game has A LOT of potential and it could go on and on even after a release. I think not just Koonchi has become passionate about helping making the game a success, but modders and a good part of the dedicated community too. If we didn't care then we wouldn't be posting stuff like this, we would just outright ignore the game and move on, but people do care and want the game to progress and grow. The Modding community goes to great lengths to add Quality of Life changes to the game, and im sure there could easily be a good relationship between the Dev's and the modders if kindled right. And just as Rinart73 said, they could help alot with bug reporting/fixing, in fact I think those people are your best bug reporters since they may even know ways to solve the issue.
Now about the main issue at hand (and this will come off a bit harsh maybe).
The Community feels largely Ignored..... You said that you have stopped frequent updates because it takes time...and well since there isnt a community manager anymore, that would explain why we've been ignored. There isnt 2 Koonchi's to manage the community and Develop the game, no matter how much we wish there were. One guy cant do it, like you said this is the harsh reality. It's painfully obivous that you need some one dedicated to interacting with the community. You cant expect a game like this to succeed if you let your forums die, there needs to be some interaction between the community and the Dev's. Yeah, we're mad cause we've been ignored, but we also want to help shape the game, we have good ideas too you know. I know it's not easy finding someone to be a community manager, but you obivously dont have enough manpower to Develop the game and Interact with the community. We have much more well thought out ideas than the people at conventions and a few of them have even been put in with Lua mods to help progress the game.
The harsh reality is that we need some interaction, on at least a bi-weekly basis. Not just updates, actual communitication like this on the forums or Discord. Where there are Polls done and responses to questions. Where bad ideas can be shutdown. Where the most annoying bugs for the community can be brought to light. (btw the most annoying thing in the UI is the lag when you have 1000's of modules and turrets in an alliance vault, it's almost impossible to use at that point).
TL:DR The game has alot of potential and we all want it to succeed. However.....No interaction = community ignored = mad/frustrated community.
Keep up the good work Koonchi! Just keep us involved man! We're here to help, let us help!